Guess Who?

Guess who used to masturbate with toothpaste.  And also enjoyed playing with his own ass while masturbating in the shower every night.

Good Riddance

A year ago today the coward left with the BS excuse, "I don't know what I want to do with the rest of my life."  Which really was code for, "I'm fucking my FILTHY WHORES".  I take comfort knowing that he is up to his eyeballs in debt, living in a shithole rental and will never amount to anything.  GOOD RIDDANCE!

Today is the Greatest Day in the World

The EX,

Is lazy

Has terrible spending habits (currently in the hole over $10k)

Called me selfish for taking maternity leave

Cheated on me while pregnant
Is a liar and a quitter

Left me with a newborn

Is addicted to porn

Called me trash

Said he didn't love me

GOOD RIDDANCE!

Are you a good wife?

He who must not be named, NOT Lord Voldemort (I wouldn't want to disrespect Lord Voldemort by associating him with the other he who must not be named) informed me that I was not a good wife.  He provided one specific reason.  Apparently I was a bad wife because I did not give him enough any ORAL SEX.  Give me a fucking break.  I got married so I WOULDN'T have to do that!  Forget the fact that I couldn't stand looking at his chicken skin.  He felt very confident in this assessment of my wifely responsibilities.  I even asked him if that's what I should teach our daughter to ensure she is a good wife; SILENCE.  Just as expected because the argument was stupid.

So mothers be sure to sit down with your daughters and have this important talk BEFORE she gets married to ensure she is a successful wife.  Probably also wouldn't be a bad idea to let your sons in on this expectation so he knows EXACTLY what to look for in a potential wife.

Witamy czytelników z Zqierz i Warszawa, Polska.

Dumb Shit the EX says...

You expect me to pay for toothbrushes!? - kids first overnight stay with him and he was FURIOUS when he realized he was expected to feed, clothe and house them while they are in his possession.

I refuse to pay for duplicates of things the kids already own - He doesn't believe the kids should have the same things at both our residences.

We both know I don't have to play dumb - haha

I'm not good with this stuff - he was wrong AGAIN with the stipulations from the temporary orders.  This may be my first time also but I can read!

You are causing me to be negative every month because you have me under temporary orders - He's negative because he can't control his money.  And final orders aren't going to change anything.

I'm in debt now because you threw me out - Not really.  He is in debt because he's spent over $8500 in just over 2 months on garbage.

I didn't know I could take the kids overnight - Maybe he doesn't know how to read...

I'm not going to miss these either...

Blood and pus splatters on the mirrors from him picking at his face.  I pray our kids don't get cursed with his terrible complexion.

Him constantly threateningly me that he is going to take the kids away from me.

Wondering exactly how many of his female co-workers he slept with.

Having to go clothes/shoe/anything shopping with him.  He can't make a decision to save his life.  We would usually walk out of the store empty handed because he would give up.

Always being late because he all of a sudden has to take a crap the second we had to leave somewhere.

Finding porn on our home computer.

Lying in bed next to him while he watches porn on his porn phone then me pretending not to notice the bed moving.

Pee all around the toilet and on the floor.

Speeding tickets and false car insurance claims.

Lying on his insurance information that he is a non smoker so he can get the discount.

Hearing the same old stories about his humanitarian work at the missions in Mexico. From what he said the only mission work he did was screw everyone who was on the same trip.

Hearing how he works with morons and he is the ONLY one that does ANY work.

Missing out on benefits because he is too lazy to fill out forms or do any research.

His general messy-ness and disorganization.

Filing taxes last minute because of said messy-ness and disorganization.

His mispronunciations.  It's,
oblige not oblawge
nauseous not nausezous
supposedly not supposably
anyway not anyways
used to not use to
I can go on forever...

Hearing him complain about his current medical problem but never go to the doctor/dentist.

Crying like a baby because he got sunburned on his neck even though he was reminded about sunscreen and how much of a baby he was last time.

Being in debt.

Having to constantly say no to his disgusting requests.  Apparently the fact that I didn't have the same interests made me a bad wife.

Hearing him complain about being so tired because he stayed up late watching garbage on TV all night and passed out on the couch.

Need I go on?

Hello to everyone in Brazil.

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I didn’t expect to write another post after closing down in April but I have gotten a lot of feedback, both good and bad. My Google Analytics reports are exploding. To date my last post has been translated into 4 languages and has had visitors as far away as Brazil. It’s funny that one post has had more traffic than everything I had posted before.

The reason I deleted and closed everything down was because my identity had been compromised. Internet security and privacy is a big deal to me. This individual is of little consequence to me. I know that anything posted on the internet is fair game but I would rather not have people reading my thoughts who know who I am in real life. Go get your jollies somewhere else. There is a new blog for lunchtime crafts, pot pie art and everything from my Target cart. Try an see if you can find it. : )

In all the feedback there have been some questions that have been repeatedly asked,

1. What happened to your marriage? – I don’t know. Everything blew up all at once. All attempts at any repair or reconciliation were rejected from day one. The final straw that set the inevatable in motion was apparently a lie. Even most recently any mention of therapy or counseling are ignored.

2. Is there anything you will miss about your future EX? – Of course. Grilled cheese sandwiches, Rocky Road ice cream, the I Love You song, the Gummi Bear song, special sayings or gestures that only we shared, commando trips to Disney World, being with someone who knew exactly how to order my breakfast tacos, breakfast in bed, special suprises of clearance merchandise or magazines. You get the picture, it’s not like everything was bad.

3. Why are comments turned off? – My intent when shutting down was to make the final post then never return to post again. I didn’t really expect any comments because I had so little traffic and I didn’t want to have to moderate any comments. If you have something to say send me an e-mail, margoisland@gmail.com.

4. Are you ok? – I guess…I pay a crazy amount of money to see a therapist every week. Everyone should consider therapy at some point in their life. Things I had suspected have been confirmed and I am working through the stigma. Admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery.

So there you have it. See you on the other side.